Category Archives: Shame

Porn Addiction Affects Women, Too!

Posted on August 8, 2022 by roubicekandthacker

“Porn is a guy thing.”

Believe it or not, this is a common belief about pornography. The unfortunate truth is that it’s not just a “guy” thing. Women consume and deal with compulsion, or addiction, to pornography as well.  Continue reading →

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Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places: Female Sex Addiction Treatment

Posted on December 10, 2021 by roubicekandthacker

Do you feel like you are looking for love primarily through sex? Are you turning to pornography to feel excited when you’re lonely or stressed? Are you surprised how much time you are spending online looking at porn? If so, … Continue reading →

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3 Common Misconceptions About Sex Addiction Treatment

Posted on June 15, 2020 by roubicekandthacker

Over the past few years as I have seen men and women come and go from the Lifestar program, I have heard a number of similar mindsets echoed from both those that stay, experience growth and success and ultimately graduate, … Continue reading →

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Angry Birds & Killer Bees (How to Talk to Children About Sex)

Posted on September 15, 2017 by roubicekandthacker

Talking to kids about sex is an essential, yet difficult task for all parents. What complicates this challenge further is the advancement of technology and the early exposure to pornography that is rampant in our day and age. Last year I … Continue reading →

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Repeat This and Recover

Posted on September 13, 2017 by roubicekandthacker

PLEASE SHARE IF YOU AGREE –Forest Benedict, LMFT, SATP, Clinical Director of LifeSTAR of the Central Valley and author of Life After Lust. If you benefited from this article, please “follow” us on this blog and on Twitter, “like” us on Facebook, and SHARE this … Continue reading →

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Stories of Trauma & Sex Addiction – 2 Podcasts

Posted on May 30, 2017 by roubicekandthacker

Often those of us in recovery have survived a trauma-filled past. Whether it’s in the form of physical, sexual, or emotional abuse, our past pains have a long-term impact on our lives and relationships (click here for more info). This … Continue reading →

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LifeSTAR’s Forest Benedict on the Trevor Carey Radio Show Today (Audio)

Posted on February 24, 2017 by roubicekandthacker

Today I had the opportunity to do a radio interview on the Trevor Carey show (FM 96.7/AM1400) about the effects of pornography, protecting children from pornography, and other topics related to sexual addiction treatment. The issue that sparked Trevor’s interest … Continue reading →

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Female Sexual Addiction Groups (Online Tonight & Local Therapy Groups)

Posted on August 19, 2016 by roubicekandthacker

Rob Weiss, LCSW is hosting an online discussion group on the topic of “Women & Sexual Addiction” tonight at 6pm (PST) at InTheRooms.com, an online recovery group site. Sharing his view on this topic he writes: “Sometimes people think sex … Continue reading →

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What You Are Worth – New Downloadable Resources for Daily Inspiration

Posted on June 28, 2016 by roubicekandthacker

Five days ago I published the powerful piece entitled “What My Wife is Worth“. It inspired many, steadily rising to over 800 views in this short time. Yesterday, I was honored when a blogger who writes to betrayed partners reflected on how my … Continue reading →

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What a Woman is Worth

Posted on June 23, 2016 by roubicekandthacker

I just finished an important piece on my personal blog called “What My Wife is Worth“. It strongly supports all women, especially partners of sex addicts. I encourage you to read this great resource and share it with others who … Continue reading →

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