Tag Archives: partners

Boundaries: Protecting What We Value


For both partners and addicts, the topic of “boundaries” is foundational in recovery.  In the video below, Troy Love, LCSW, explains the concept of boundaries in a simple yet effective manner. May we all learn to care for ourselves by setting … Continue reading

Posted in Addiction, Partner of Sexual Addict, Recovery, Self-care, Sexual Addiction | Tagged , , , , | 2 Comments

XXXChurch Publishes LifeSTAR Article for Partners


I wanted to take a moment and share a new article I wrote that was published today on the XXXChurch blog. It is called “5 Things You MUST Do If Your Spouse Is Hooked On Porn“. This is another great … Continue reading

Posted in Addiction, Partner of Sexual Addict, Recovery, Self-Compassion, Sexual Addiction | Tagged , , , , | 3 Comments

Bashing…or Venting? A Spouse Needs Support But When Does Venting Become Toxic?


Supportive Friendships When I became engaged to be married, a dear friend gave me some wise advice. She said that “the best thing you can do for your marriage is to have a good best friend who is not your … Continue reading

Posted in Partner of Sexual Addict, Recovery, Self-care | Tagged , , , | Leave a comment