Tag Archives: hope

“Instructions for a Bad Day” -A Call to Hope and Perseverance

Posted on August 18, 2016 by roubicekandthacker

Need inspiration and hope today? Take 5.5 minutes to watch this video. Be encouraged. Then share this with someone else who needs it. -By Forest Benedict, MA, SATP-C, LMFT, Clinical Director of LifeSTAR of the Central Valley If you benefited from this article, … Continue reading →

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Out of Our Pain Comes Our Purpose

Posted on August 16, 2016 by roubicekandthacker

Over a decade ago I checked into a treatment program hoping to heal from a serious sexual addiction. A transformed life was Plan A. Plan B was a secret plot to escape to Las Vegas and drown myself in addictive self-destruction. My contingency … Continue reading →

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Real Recovery from Sex Addiction: A Partner’s Perspective

Posted on June 16, 2016 by roubicekandthacker

The article entitled “What No One Tells You About Sex Addiction Recovery” provides one of the best descriptions of real recovery I have ever read. In her article, Avalon Vic shared honestly about her experience of discovering her husband’s sex addiction, … Continue reading →

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Is Digital Adultery Poisoning Your Marriage?

Posted on January 4, 2016 by roubicekandthacker

I had the privilege of writing this piece on pornography addiction and how it harms relationships. Though it is from a Christian perspective, it contains practical tips for anyone struggling with with this issue, including partners. I would be honored … Continue reading →

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My Path Out of Porn Addiction: A Therapist’s Journey

Posted on April 22, 2015 by roubicekandthacker

When I recently wrote about my promotion to Clinical Director and the career journey that led me to this work I love to do, I omitted a significant piece of my history. We all have a back-story. It is ours … Continue reading →

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Standing Together Against ‘Shades of Grey’: The Birth of a Movement by Forest Benedict, MA, SATP-C, MFT Intern (#63601)

Posted on February 16, 2015 by roubicekandthacker

On February 6th I did the bravest thing I’ve ever done, sharing with the world “What One Person Can Do to Stand Against ‘Shades of Grey’”. Prompted from within, I believed the time had arrived. Diving into controversial waters, I … Continue reading →

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The Lesson of Gratitude

Posted on November 27, 2014 by roubicekandthacker

A couple months ago I lost a dear friend to cancer. Nothing stirs up questions about life like the death of a loved one. It left me with questions about suffering and spirituality. It taught me many lessons as well. … Continue reading →

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