Tag Archives: accountability

The Healing Power of Accountability – VLOG

Posted on May 17, 2017 by roubicekandthacker

Accountability is an essential part of a successful recovery plan and yet so many people resist implementing it. Check out my recent vlog where I share about my experience with accountability and why it is such a powerful modality for healing. –Forest … Continue reading →

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Yes, You Can Fire Your Accountability Partner (New XXXChurch Article)

Posted on June 1, 2016 by roubicekandthacker

Successful recovery will not occur without a strong accountability relationship. Finding the right partner can be difficult and sometimes “firing” the wrong fit is a necessary step toward health. In my recent XXXChurch article, I shared “5 Reasons to Fire Your Accountability Partner“. … Continue reading →

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From Addiction to Connection: Radio Interview with “Carol the Coach” & Forest Benedict, LMFT, SATP-C

Posted on July 14, 2015 by roubicekandthacker

Last night I had the privilege of being interviewed on live radio by “Carol the Coach“. Carol Juergensen Sheets LCSW, PCC, CSAT is a psychotherapist who hosts the informative show called “Sexual Addiction: Strength/Hope/Recovery“. Carol invited me to join her … Continue reading →

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Recovery on the Road: Preparing for The Temptations of Travel

Posted on June 29, 2015 by roubicekandthacker

For those in recovery, temptations can skyrocket in times of travel. Away from home, addicts experience anonymity and lack of structure that can be detrimental for the unprepared traveler. One simple strategy for trips is to create a effective tool … Continue reading →

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My Path Out of Porn Addiction: A Therapist’s Journey

Posted on April 22, 2015 by roubicekandthacker

When I recently wrote about my promotion to Clinical Director and the career journey that led me to this work I love to do, I omitted a significant piece of my history. We all have a back-story. It is ours … Continue reading →

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Defending Against “Pre-Lapse”: Moving from Complacency to Commitment

Posted on April 1, 2015 by roubicekandthacker

Time and time again, I have watched the sprint of early recovery dissipate into a stroll of complacency. Initial passion, often fueled by crisis or catastrophe, pushes people powerfully forward. Yet, unless this momentum is maintained, addicts will gradually revert … Continue reading →

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“The Procrastination Pit” by Forest Benedict, MA, SATP-C, LifeSTAR of the Central Valley

Posted on October 3, 2014 by roubicekandthacker

Last night my family and I went out to celebrate a major milestone; the completion of a project that was years in the making. The nature of this so called “project” was unique. It was birthed four years ago, when … Continue reading →

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LifeSTAR Announcement: New Advanced Sexual Addiction Recovery Therapy Group (Starting Soon)

Posted on August 29, 2014 by roubicekandthacker

Recovery is a process that lasts a lifetime. Those in long-term recovery, including program graduates, are equipped with many tools to maintain their healing but can have various life experiences that challenge their ability to maintain progress. Also, while increased … Continue reading →

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“Connection Calls” by Forest Benedict, MA, SATP-C

Posted on March 9, 2014 by roubicekandthacker

Here is another excerpt from a new LifeSTAR workbook I just finished writing that will soon be available to participants in our LifeSTAR of the Central Valley program. Connection Calls In Phase 1, participants learn the Cycle of Addiction and … Continue reading →

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